divorce, assets, guilt and what's fair
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divorce, assets, guilt and what's fair
| Thu, 03-27-2008 - 2:39pm |
I will try to be brief as my ongoing saga is over on the alcoholism board.
| Thu, 03-27-2008 - 2:39pm |
I will try to be brief as my ongoing saga is over on the alcoholism board.
This is a pretty complicated situation, so my best advice would be to consult a laywer.
Thanks.
Oh boy, what a tangled web some of us end up in, including myself. I did the self divorce because he was not fighting any of it and I did it to save any amount of finances I could. The lawyer just gets too much, BUT, I was able to do that because of a non profit org in my area. They help women, especially those who are battered and those involved with alcoholics. They offered a divorce clinic once a month with real attornies to answer any questions you might have and guide you through the paper work. If you feel you can get what you need with out fear of him coming up at the last minutes and fighting for stuff, look into any resources that may be offered like I had it was a life saver. You might check the yellow pages or call your local hospital if they offer any alcohol programs and ask them if they know of any groups willing to help with divorce.
Good Luck.
Hello rocket..so sorry to hear of your dilemnas...I understand as I am married to an alcoholic too.
You need to RUN to an attorney and get a consult NOW. Inheritances are not marital property to split unless he comingles the money. Basically you are not entitled to his inheritance if he keeps it seperate from the marriage. If he uses any toward marital bills or home improvements, etc..then you may get a share..Only an attorney can help you on that and it's still up to the judge to decide.
As for the forged checks, basically anything done during a marriage is not considered a crime. I would ask an attorney, there are always loopholes and clauses. You MAY be able to go the small claims route...
~Lisa =))
Rocket,
Yes, you need an attorney ASAP. You need to know your rights and responsibilities.
I'd also like to ask you: when you knew
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