Divorce pain invading new relationships

iVillage Member
Registered: 08-21-2008
Divorce pain invading new relationships
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Thu, 08-21-2008 - 12:18pm

Hi everyone -


I haven't been on message board since my divorce

iVillage Member
Registered: 11-28-1999
Thu, 08-21-2008 - 3:34pm

Nothing in your post makes me think that you are still in love w/ your ex.

iVillage Member
Registered: 08-21-2008
Thu, 08-21-2008 - 4:14pm

Hi - thanks for your reply. Forgot to mention in my first post - I'm divorced twice! Got married the first time at 30 and was bored, there was no sex and no communication if I stayed it would have been for the money. I saw Bridges of Mad County and was flummoxed at the idea of a loveless marriage forever and started drinking to calm my irrational fears (?) - he divorced me after 5 years.


Then as it happened - a year later I met a hot 25 year old cupid, love at first sight yadda-yadda he was here on illegal visa and it was

iVillage Member
Registered: 11-28-1999
Thu, 08-21-2008 - 4:36pm

Don't be too harsh on yourself.

iVillage Member
Registered: 08-21-2008
Thu, 08-21-2008 - 4:44pm

Hi - oh the part of why do I still think I am in love with my ex----you

iVillage Member
Registered: 03-19-2003
Thu, 08-21-2008 - 7:49pm

Maybe it's him :-)


Karen ~ wildlucky4me ~