divorced at 24
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divorced at 24
| Fri, 12-14-2007 - 4:55pm |
met my Husband when i was a freshman in college, got engaged during junior year, married 4 weeks after college graduation, married for 1 year 4 months, and i left.
i couldn't be married to someone who made me feel so SO badly about myself.
no kids, only a puppy, whom i miss SO SO SO much, but i have never been happier about a decision in my life.
one of my main struggles right now is feeling like i'm damaged goods because i am going to be divorced by the time i'm 24 years old.
i've always felt like i did things by the book..........
is there anybody out there who feels the same way?
i've been blogging and i thought i would share:

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I keep this open on my computer desktop, I say it to myself every day. When things seem chaotic (which they often do) it helps me realize that the chaos will end and the calm will come. I have to make sure I am not part of the chaos (with the kids, keeping calm) and keep going, focus on my goals and work on me.
Maybe you should take up Belly Dancing? I used to teach for years. Its incredible how good it makes you feel about yourself.
Awaken your inner goddess.
There was a time in history where women were very much revered..... and rightly so
Liz
You made a mistake.
i did not make a mistake.
it wasn't living when i was with my STBX and i am TRULY excited about the new perspectives that singleness has given me thus far and about the opportunities that i see lying before myself.
i appreciate your advice and your opinion, not dating is something i had already promised to do and so was getting a cat. of course, i'm going to wait a little bit on getting a cat as i am still not settled down anywhere and no kitten deserves to be moved to and fro.
i am implementing new plans for my life including but not limited to:
-getting my first full time job
-writing and writing and writing until i have something to send to publishers
-spending more time with my sisters and mother
-enjoy singleness and the company of friends
i do not plan on getting married again until i am SURE that it is what i want to do.
life isn't always by the book....
http://life-by-the-book.blogspot.com
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