Do they ever get over it??
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Do they ever get over it??
| Wed, 01-31-2007 - 6:59pm |
Perhaps this is the wrong place to ask this question seeing as most of us are still in the process... but, after meeting with the mediator STBX is really pissy again. I can tell by his attitude and what he's saying that the mediator has said something that he doesn't like. Every time another person tells him that he is going to have to pay child support and spousal support he starts to punish me with his words and behaviour. It's really annoying. Do they ever get over it?? I'm so sick of his victim/punisher stance.

I don't know. But I feel your pain. I have a feeling stbx will forever try to punish me for putting him through this.
Then again, he always liked to punish me. I was such a bad wife. (sigh) Even his mother told me his behavior was harsh, but sometimes I did things to cause it.
Whatever. I digress.
I do hope they get over it eventually. He's been eerily quiet lately. I wonder what he's been up to. The silence will end soon though. I signed the divorce complaint on Tuesday. When he gets it I'm sure it will get ugly again.
Karen ~ wildlucky4me ~
My EX was like that... so I just had contact with him only when I had to, and then, I tried to really limit it.
When he'd call (if the kids were with me) I'd let the call roll to voice mail.
Karen ~ wildlucky4me ~