Do you feel ready for divorce?
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Do you feel ready for divorce?
| Tue, 06-12-2007 - 7:01pm |
I was SO sure this was it, I am done with STBX, sick of his crap, lets get the divorce started. And yet, I'm not sure if that is what I really want right now. I know I don't want to BE with him right now, and I'm not sure if there would even be a place for him in my future if he DID staighten out....but in my heart I just don't feel READY for a divorce. KWIM? I don't know, maybe I just need time to get adjusted to being on my own first, and then one day I'll feel good about getting divorced.
So, is it realistic to tell him lets be seperated for 6 months and then see where we stand? I just feel like I can't rush into a divorce when I know I still love him, I want to work through those feelings first. I just feel stupid thinking this way after 5 years of BS, you'd think I'd be relieved!
So, is it realistic to tell him lets be seperated for 6 months and then see where we stand? I just feel like I can't rush into a divorce when I know I still love him, I want to work through those feelings first. I just feel stupid thinking this way after 5 years of BS, you'd think I'd be relieved!

Karen ~ wildlucky4me ~
But I know have to do this and now. I am still young and it is not good for the kids to see us fight all the time. *Deep breath* I will be happy when this is all done...now just to figure out on how to tell him.