Does the crying stop?
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| Tue, 02-28-2006 - 9:18pm |
Thanks for all the support to those of you who read my very long, crazy story of my cheating husband. I know the marraige and our 13 year relationship is over, he has made it clear to me that he is in love with the OW. I still have to go to work and school every day. Everyone knows me as a happy and upbeat person, and I'm on day 15 of a long uphill battle. I'm finding myslef at least laughing and cracking jokes at work (most people there know my situation), however 5 minutes later I have go into the bathroom to sob.
When does this stop? I just want my life back....
Beanie
PS Last night I found out my husband called a family meeting with his brothers, parents and sisters-in law to apologize to them for lying to them for months about cheating on me. Of coarse his brothers support him, but their wives (all my best friends) are still angry with him and told him they need time to grieve for the loss of our marraige and it will be a while before he can bring his new GF around. I felt like my heart was ripped out when I found out he went to his family (my family too!) to ask them to accept his new GF after I only found out two weeks ago.....

Hugs, Brenda
No, it doesn't stop, but it lessens. Now it just sneaks up on me when I don't expect it. It's been about 6 months. I hope he drops dead while they're doing it (not on his visitation weekend, of course).
Laura
hang in there sweetie...
i promise you this:
- the crying does stop. you are in mourning now, you are scared, you are angry - but this too shall pass. its a promise. i remember when i was going thru my divorce - i was walking around feeling like a pot about to boil over. all someone needed to do was say 'good morning, wassup' and i would feel tears pop into my eyes.