Does he think I'm stupid?

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Registered: 12-16-2004
Does he think I'm stupid?
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Mon, 08-27-2007 - 12:38pm
He is going to file for a modification in custody, he want's 6 and 6 (to live with him 6 months and me 6 months) ... our son is 4. We live 25 minutes away from each other. Does he think that this would even be a reasonable solution? He's insane, and crazy, and just stupid, or thinks I'm stupid. He told me that the judge will sit down with our son and ask him what HE wants, yes because at 4, he knows what he wants or understands. Also got another threat "if I have to kill you and your family to protect him, I will". I hate him. i hate him. i hate him.
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Registered: 03-19-2003
Tue, 09-11-2007 - 5:14pm

If he seriously (as in actually said/wrote/etc/) that he'd kill you, I'd go directly to the police station and file an order of protection.


Karen ~ wildlucky4me ~

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Registered: 10-25-2006
Tue, 09-11-2007 - 5:53pm

Klo,


I totally agree with Karen. You need to make a police report. Was the threat verbal or written? If it's written take a copy of it with you to the police.


I'm also concerned why your husband thinks he has to "protect" your son from his own mother and your family? Be extremely careful here, he may try to accuse you or your family of some kind of abuse. Document everything: bruises, scrapes, and doctor visits. I wouldn't put it past him to try to get social services involved if he thinks that will get him sole custody.


Again, make a polic report about the death threat. That way its documented. No one can help you if you don't tell someone. So do that right away.


CL-Wisdomtooth2020

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Registered: 12-16-2004
Wed, 09-12-2007 - 12:32pm
He's just nuts.