Does the pain ever end?

iVillage Member
Registered: 04-21-2006
Does the pain ever end?
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Mon, 10-15-2007 - 7:56pm

I am 32 and have been divorced for almost two years now.

iVillage Member
Registered: 11-09-2006
Tue, 10-16-2007 - 7:56am

I

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Registered: 12-06-2005
Tue, 10-16-2007 - 10:06am

well I was married two years ago for only three months.. my ex cheated on my with his high school sweetheart.. we were together 3/5 years before our marriage. the last year before the wedding was rocky due to her but I thought things would change.. did not....so yes I may not have the history like you guys have had but I felt that pain... there are tons of things I learned and grew from.. i really looked at my ex, and the things he did to me, and realized how someone like that was not even worthy of me.. someone who cheats has low self esteem, and is not comfortable with themseleves.. a lot of times people cheat because they feel horrible about themseleves, and want someone who boosts there ego.. my ex high sweetheart (his gf now) is someone who doesn't say boo to him.. lets him be immature, and a kid... its works for them.. I have grown up to know that my divorce was not my fault because I put everything into it.. if you know you tried then I would move on, and compare other guys to the bad things about your ex.. good luck