Don't Know if i can move on

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Registered: 12-08-2004
Don't Know if i can move on
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Tue, 12-19-2006 - 7:11am
My husband wanted time to his self about a month ago to see if children was what he wanted (I can not have anymore children and he has no children). Three days after my child and I moved out he went and filed for divorce. No lets try to work it out, discuss adoption, or any other alternative to children. I am devistated. I can not eat, sleep, or work. I don't know what to do. Everyone tells me "time" will make it all better and not to let it get me down. Now thats sound like real good advise, but lets face it they are not going through this and I am. How do they know time will make it better. I love this man with all my heart and I feel like I can not breath without him. He tells me he loves me and talks to me all the time.(Which I appretiate because right now I could not make it through the day without hearing from him) He also tells people we know that the divorce was mutual!! Like hell, I would have never left him, I love him. He knows the divorce was his idea but he is scared he is going to look like the "bad guy" because he wants the divorce because of the child issue. Now the divorce that i don't want will be final before the week is up. I waited all my life for a man like this one and now he is leaving my life. I love him and I don't know how to get past the shock. Some one please help me with some little bit of advise.
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Registered: 03-19-2003
Wed, 12-27-2006 - 5:42pm

Hi... How are you doing?


Karen ~ wildlucky4me ~