The door is opening....

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Registered: 12-11-2003
The door is opening....
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Fri, 08-12-2005 - 1:08pm

The door is opening very slowly, but I'm beginnning to find out more dirt on him than he ever expected. One of his very close friends says her and her dh has only seen him once in 3-wks he did stay all night with them Sat. night, but that was the first and last time they have seen him in a while. She told me how much better off I'll be and all this is pointing to an affair he is hiding from me. I pulled up cell phone records, one lead to my cousin, waiting on this month to see if she is on that bill. I just what the ball to start rolling on the divorce trail. I'm ready to sign those papers after finding out he has lied to me about visiting his friend of the evenings after work and on weekends. He has not called, that's another indication that he has a girlfriend. Should I call and tell him to file papers, or should I sue him for divorce? I'm not paying for anything, I'll be damned if I fork out any money over this. He wanted it he can fork up the money for everything, there's nothing to contest, I just want a divorce. I can handle this now that I know he has to be cheating, she's doing me a favor. I would love to know who she is so I could thank her, and give her the biggest mistake of my life, let her deal with his childish crap. I'm done. I'm so mad I could put his head through the wall right now. Where do I start on this?

Stacy

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Registered: 03-19-2003
Fri, 08-12-2005 - 8:33pm
You can... and should file.

Karen ~ wildlucky4me ~