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| Wed, 07-25-2007 - 9:10pm |
it's crazy - today i received a text from possible soon to be ex that said he was offered a manager position in Philidelphia - we live in NC - hmmmm...how crazy is that - we are in the midst of counseling - reconciliation is possible, yet unlikely - depending if any progress will come from counseling - however if he were to take it - all bets would be off - no way i'm going to do a LD relationship w/him - nor would i even contemplate a move like that w/him & the instability that he seems to bring (seemed like he went into auto pilot everytime there was a problem & he would pull the divorce card)...
i couldn't imagine if he took it - our twins are almost 3 - i can just see them back & forth, a year & year there -honestly couldn't imagine how hard that would be on them & us -and to send it in a text b/c he was in training? what an absolute idiot - and to think i would go back to being married to him - what the hell?? ;(
Laurel

Thx. Yes you are right about the communication factor - something I know I could've did a better job of during the marriage...that whole teaching people how to treat you kind of stuff.
That's the thing about all this technology & writing stuff - b/c you don't hear tone in a voice or see body language w/someone - you can really be off the mark w/stuff just written in words.
I did talk to him later & he said he was declining the offer - not sure what the consequences of that could be & not exactly sure why - maybe that's why he text me w/the info - he wasn't taking it too seriously? hmmmm... Still tho, the topic has came up before tho w/his job & it's a little unsettling - it's a large company & if you want to advance, often that means moving - and w/kids & desiring stability for them, that can be a tough one.
thx again :)
Laurel