Due influence on our kids ....

iVillage Member
Registered: 12-03-2007
Due influence on our kids ....
1
Mon, 12-03-2007 - 12:36pm

As a woman gong thru a divorce or seperation... do you ever stop and think to yourself " is there anything I can do to prevent my son from repeating the patterns that lead to the demise of my marriage, to his dad?"


And I know this one is a LOADED question.. but the thought makes me ponder. I am the mother of (2) teenage boys, and I am divorcing their father. However, I am having an EXTREMELY tough go at it.

iVillage Member
Registered: 03-19-2003
Fri, 12-21-2007 - 10:40pm

Hi there...


I just try to be the person I want my kids to be... show them the example... and although you don't want to air the errs of your marriage to their dad to them, you can send a clear message about what adults should and shouldn't put up with in a relationship.... but most of all, be the one who sets the good example, who's there for them,


Karen ~ wildlucky4me ~