Emotional abuse ... my poor daughter ...

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Registered: 03-15-2004
Emotional abuse ... my poor daughter ...
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Tue, 05-02-2006 - 6:37am

Its just SO freaking CONSTANT from him.

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Registered: 07-08-2004
Tue, 05-02-2006 - 7:24am

Yeah, your STBX is a real peach all right! I

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Registered: 04-19-2004
Tue, 05-02-2006 - 9:09am

Grrrrrr

Everytime I read about your ex I get more steamed. Is there anyway to have Avery's counselor recommend to the courts that her visitation with your ex be supervised? I can't imagine that this is good for your daughter in any way. This is ridiculous.

Uggh how awful for this little girl. This man is truly soooo selfish. Doesn't he know what he is doing to this beautiful little girl? and doesn't he care?

I just want to take a drive down to RI and smack the crap out of him.

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Registered: 03-15-2004
Tue, 05-02-2006 - 9:32am

1st off, you are FAR from the 1st to offer that little drive to RI ... lol


2nd, Ave's counsleor DID write a recommendation to the courts AND the GAL ... very blatantly about supervised visitation ... they ignored it. I have jumped thru HOOPS to prove what goes on, they dont care.


3rd, read my newest post under here - yet one MORE example as of this very morning.


& 4 ... read my newest post about payback

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Tue, 05-02-2006 - 9:33am
Thanks. I do hope i can make up for HIS insanity.
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Tue, 05-02-2006 - 9:41am

So JUST this morning - i am picking her up.

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Registered: 04-19-2004
Tue, 05-02-2006 - 9:43am
The RI courts suck. Move to MA. They seem to care a little more. LOL
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Tue, 05-02-2006 - 10:45am

Ugh.... it's so hard to sit there knowing this stuff is going on. My XH emotionally abused me in very subtle ways and I know he's doing it to Rosie and Gracie. Rosie's counselor is WONDERFUL about teaching her that she's a great person in spite of him and that she is not responsible for anyone's happiness except her own. It's been slow in coming, but never fear..... Averey will learn it. One of the past CLs on Divorced Moms (Oh, how long ago THAT was....) used to tell me that children learn as much from a bad example as a good one. Janet, if you're reading this.... you certainly were correct!

*hugs to you and Averey* (And have a ball in Italy!)

~calla~  mom to rosie and gracie

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Registered: 03-19-2003
Tue, 05-02-2006 - 2:41pm

Wow.... I feel ya.... BUT I do think that one some level (even though all of the other stuff can be totally overwhelming) she knows that "what daddy says and how he really feels are two different things"... sure, daddy is a miserable person... maybe she should practice her "it's OK if you're not happy, daddy" line (JUST KIDDING!!!!!--that would open a whole other can of worms).


It is so sad that she's walking on eggshells and trying so hard to make sure he doesn't get upset.


Karen ~ wildlucky4me ~

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Registered: 03-19-2003
Tue, 05-02-2006 - 2:53pm
Oh... I totally agree!

Karen ~ wildlucky4me ~

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Registered: 03-15-2004
Thu, 05-04-2006 - 5:25am

Thanks SO much. I do know she will get thru it. & OH YEAH!


I-T-A-L-Y !!!!!!!!

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