Emotionally drained
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| Tue, 05-13-2008 - 10:15am |
For those who remember me, my husband wanted a divorce after 10 years of marriage. He told me it was because I didn't go out and get a better paying job to help make his dreams come true. He never was great with money and hid credit card balances from me before. I make 40K a year, so it wasn't like I wasn't doing anything. I was also paying half of the bills.
The final straw was when he told me to move on one side of the house and he and his son on the other side until it sold. I moved out instead. He helped me move and acted like it was the best day of his life when he got me out. He put himself up on facebook as single looking for women for friendship dating.
Here it is 3 1/2 weeks later. I sent him the settlement agreement with no response. It was a nice one and didn't ask for alimony or lawyers fees. Basically, it says that we already split the proceeds and just need to have him either refinance or sell the house. I'm not making him buy me out of my half. He went into a tyrade about how he shouldn't be responsible for the house by himself and I should pay for half of the mortgage. I don't live there!!!!
I told him if he doesn't sign the agreement within 5 days, I will go along with the original filing where it asks for alimony and lawyers fees. I am tired of him messing around with me when it comes to money. I was hoping he would sign the settlement agreement and we would then be done with no hassles of court costs and other fees and having to get all of the paperwork showing what we make, bank statements, etc. What a pain in the butt.
All because he doesn't want to be married to me anymore and wants to go do what he wants to do and follow his dreams.

Forst of all (((hugs))).