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| Thu, 05-31-2007 - 4:18pm |
its funny really, that you can live with someone for so long and not realize what a total complete manipulating a$$ they are.
take my stbx: this past holiday weekend he was very curious as to where i would be spending time. every holiday weekend, we would be invited to go away with friends. stbx never went. well, this year, there was no invitation for me. (or stbx for that matter) the d has impacted alot of things. unfortunatly, relationships with friends has been one.
so,stbx called our friends and invited himself away to their house for the weekend, and never showed up. he called me tuesday night, he always starts out with "its about the kids". anyway, he begins to tell me about his invitation over the weekend, he lead me to believe that he was called and invited not the other way around. he decided not to go because he didn't want to hurt my feelings. but he wanted to let me know that my friends were not interested in spending the weekend with me.
what is really funny is my boss and i are very good friends. he is even paying for my d. and my stbx expected me to actually believe that he was invited and not me.
so this is my epiphany through the past few months of living away from stbx. he is a master manipulator. he pulls my strings, he dictates how i will react, he tells me when to sit, when to stand, he controls or controlled me. he has been doing this to me my entire married life i am sure of it now.
funny how once the fog begins to clear you can see things for what they are.
sorry all for the typo in the subject line. i am such a good catholic with even better spelling skills. lol.
Edited 5/31/2007 4:46 pm ET by whatabadidea

Oieee! Sorry to hear how petty and pathetic he is.
Btw, if you can edit your subject line you might want to. I think the word you intended is epiphany (ph). Hugs to you!
M
oh brother!
can't correct my spelling in the subject line.
That's how manipulators work... ya can't see their action when you're "too close".
hugs,
Karen ~ wildlucky4me
Karen ~ wildlucky4me ~