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| Mon, 12-11-2006 - 10:06am |
Hi. I've posted a few times. I've really had a hard time with the divorce.
Got my kids back last night (they are 4 & 6). My 6 yr old son informed me that dad was going on a date last night. Number one, I found it quite odd and not very acceptable behavior that you tell your child about your social life. Number two--boy, it sure was a blow to my heart. Not sure why--I guess I'm feeling hurt, jealous, sad, reality of it all. Any advice? Do you guys think that was appropriate as to him telling our son and any adivce on if what i'm feeling is normal?
Thanks,
Darcy
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| Mon, 12-11-2006 - 10:35am |
That dating information was no doubt a little dig to you. It's not appropriate to let the kids know what your relationship plans are but he did that just knowing that it would get back to you. Hey, what you are feeling is perfectly normal. How can you not have these feelings when you have been with someone and had their children and lived in their life? You will get past these feelings too. I have been there and it does take time. Sometimes a lot of time. Heck, I still get emtional thinking that he could end up with someone other than me.
