ex is getting married

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Registered: 04-03-2003
ex is getting married
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Thu, 08-18-2005 - 3:40pm


I knew it would happen eventually, I just didn't think it would be this soon. We divorced last October and I found out from a mutual friend that he propsed over the weekend to the girl he started dating right as the divorce was final. Which is hilarious considering one of the many reasons he gave me for screwing around on me was that he got married too young (he's 28 now) and never got to play the field and found the attention of other women irresistable.

I wish I didn't care and that's the face I've been putting on to friends and family that know. I don't want him back and I feel sorry for the girl that he's marrying. I think I'm just bummed becaue because I've been lonely and haven't made any good connections on the dating scene. I'm keeping very busy and I spend time with friends, but the lonely is inevitable.

Anyway, just wanted to vent.

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Registered: 03-19-2003
Thu, 08-18-2005 - 10:11pm
Awww... hang in there!

Karen ~ wildlucky4me ~

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Registered: 08-31-2004
Thu, 08-18-2005 - 10:17pm
I can totally feel for you on the lonely thing .....My H left me in June right after my birthday to be with some chic and this was not his first affair.....of course, he denies it having anything to do with moving out...It was just mere coincidence that he started seeing her at the same time he decided being married was inconvenient for him.....what a shmuck....but he has some one and I am here alone and lonely....and I have almost seen everything at blockbuster......LOL....I feel the same that you do, I do not want him back ever, it just sucks that he is out there and has already repaced me and I am fighting being lonely.....I am just chalking it up to the fact that many women go for the wrong guy, me included, so that is why he already has some one....yup, some one else that he can degrade, humiliate, belittle, cheat on and treat like dirt....Keep your head up.....I feel like maybe it just takes a little longer to find that warm, genuine, would not lie to you kind of guy out there.....but when I find mine, I know my H will turn into just the guy that gave me my kids........I can not wait for that day........