The Ex Getting Re-married
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|Wed, 07-06-2011 - 8:02am|
I knew this was coming for awhile - he and the gf have been living together for about a year now & I knew that she would be expecting a ring soon. But even though I knew more than likely this whole thing would go down, I am still having an undesirable reaction to it & I hate it. Since I found out, I've woke up early two mornings now thinking about it and my stomach is in knots. I'm not sure why this is and I know it will go away at some point, but I still hate experiencing this.
I guess of course the main part that I hate is just the unknown of how it will affect my kids. At this point, they tolerate their dad's girlfriend, her kid & her dog - but I know that deep down they would really like us back together - or if nothing else, their dad to themselves again w/out all of the annoyances that come with the gf - new wife. In the beginning she was of course very nice to them and they really thought everything was new & exciting w/her but a year later, she has more of a parent role and "Mom" isn't looking so bad to them anymore.