Ex wants me to change plans for him

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Registered: 02-27-2005
Ex wants me to change plans for him
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Mon, 05-30-2005 - 10:08am
I am I being unreasonable?
Here's the situation, my exhusband lives far away from me and two kids and only sees them a few times a year. Well, he called and said he was coming to visit next weekend and would have the kids at a hotel in town all weekend. That's fine, but my boss had previously invited all the employees and their children to Disney on Ice, her treat and the show is the Sat the ex will be here. I told him about the tickets and the previously aranged plans, but he is mad about it and rants how he hardly every gets to see them and I should either cancel the plans and let them be with him for the entire weekend or I should give HIM the tickets and let HIM take the kids to the show? He says I am being selfish and stubborn. All I am asking is for him to meet me at the arena with the kids at showtime and then pick them up after, how long can a Disney on Ice show be? 2hours at the most. Am I being unreasonable? Should I give him the tickets? Should I not go? I don't think I am being unreasonable, it's not like I just ran out and bought these tickets after he told me he was coming, now THAT would be unreasonable, but we have had these plans for a while, but he seems to think that I should drop everything because he is coming and he doesn't get to see them very much.

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Registered: 03-06-2005
Tue, 05-31-2005 - 5:29pm

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