ex wants to use kids as messengers....
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| Mon, 06-19-2006 - 6:39pm |
I drove the kids up to summer camp yesterday (on his parenting day, because he didnt want to bother). Parents and family can email the campers whenever they want and the kids really enjoy getting their mail.... So, this morning I emailed all the respective grandparents, aunts, uncles that usually like to know (as I have done every year past) the proper camper codes so that they can properly email the kids. I then called ex because he has never given me his new email address claiming that because I kept the computer that he does not have access to the internet. Well his sister lives just a few miles from him and he can go to any public library....but whatever.
Anyway, ds specifically asked my to give his dad the info so that his dad can email him. So, I tell this to ex and he proceeds to tell me that he never wants to speak to me again and if there is anything pertaining to the kids that they can tell him themselves. I explained that the kids are not messengers and there will be several instances that it will be inappropriate for the kids to relay info that is really adult info. I told him I would be happy to snail mail anything to him, but in circumstances like this he would never have gotten the info befoer the kids were home from camp but, he can do with the information whatevr he chooses. What an imbasole (sp?).
He cant just be a big boy and grow up. Well either way I am not going to be held in contempt of court because he does not want any info to come from me. I will make copies of everything I send him by mail and go form there. If he chooses to not include me in on things that would be of importance then I will address that with the court if it becomes a problem.
I think his biggest issue is that for the past week we have been ironing out the divorce agreement and his atty even sent an email to my atty that ex is "vigorously changing his mind" and that "we should be as quick as possible to answer any requests from them, because ex keeps changing his mind".... He actually wrote that in an email!!! Ha Ha.... Welcome to my life Mr. Atty!
Any advice on this issue?
Thanks,
Jan
| Tue, 06-20-2006 - 10:04pm |
