Ex/Wedding Pics

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Registered: 06-02-2008
Ex/Wedding Pics
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Mon, 08-18-2008 - 4:59pm

Quick background -


This man and I have been dating since Dec. We were both separated and going through divorces. It was a terrible idea but now I care about him and if I could go back I would probably do the same thing. Both of our divorces were finalized in May. Things are going well.


Here is my problem/question: he has recently started doing some decorating and he put up a picture from his wedding day. It is a picture of him, his brother, and now deceased father.


Is it petty or expected for me to be bothered to see a picture from his wedding day in his bedroom? Part of me feels I'm being petty, while another part of me feels that it is wrong to put up a wedding day picture in

iVillage Member
Registered: 02-08-2008
Mon, 08-18-2008 - 5:07pm
I wouldn't worry about it.
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iVillage Member
Registered: 07-29-2003
Mon, 08-18-2008 - 5:17pm

I absolutely agree.

iVillage Member
Registered: 07-13-2008
Mon, 08-18-2008 - 6:54pm

What about, if the relationship progresses, offering to take the picture to a place where you can copy it & then crop the copy so that only he & his family are in the photo?


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Registered: 03-19-2003
Mon, 08-18-2008 - 9:16pm

From his response, It sounds very much like it's about DAD... and nothing about the wedding.


Karen ~ wildlucky4me ~