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|Mon, 07-01-2013 - 9:08am|
Ive been with my husband for 10 years. We got married in 2010. We have always had problems but always said that even though we had these problems, we wanted to be together. Last year, I decided to get some therapy on my own becasue I wasnt happy. It wasnt that I was unhappy in my marriage, I was unhappy with me. My therapist, felt at the time, that it was a good idea for me to move out of the house and try to figure me out because I had so many emotions. I left for 3 months but spent many nights/weekends with my husband. In September we went on vacation and when we came back I moved back in. We spent the fall and winter having our usual arguments. In January we decided together that I should move out so that we could try to work on things between us because it wasnt working with me living there. My husband really did not try to get along with me after I left. I asked him to try marriage counseling and he agreed. Once we got to marriage counseling, things werent working at all because he just decided that no matter what things couldnt be better. I've since found out that he is seeing someone.
I still want to try to make things work out. Things do not feel resolved for me. It's not that I feel I can't love someone else or that I can't be happy without him because honestly thats just silly. Of course I can fall in love again and of course I can be happy on my own. But it just doesnt feel right.
I just dont know what to do.