Feeling so frustrated
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| Mon, 01-22-2007 - 1:39pm |
STBX was supposed to send me two things last week: 1) a letter stating the amount of alimony and child support; and 2) the days he wants to have visitation. He did neither. I could really scream! I explained to him repeatedly that I need the letter to enroll my kids in a group health insurance plan offered by New York State. I need the days he wants visitation so I can have my lawyer put them in the separation agreement.
I was going to call him about it today, but he called me first. He actually tried to talk me into coming back to Germany with the kids. Apparently, he still doesn't accept thatI am actually divorcing him. He had the nerve to tell me he couldn't understand why I would want a divorce. WHAT PLANET is he on??? In what UNIVERSE can he imagine that the sh*t he has pulled is forgivable??? AAaaaAAAAhhhhHHHHH!!!
Anyway, I told him that if he doesn't get those two things to me by Wednesday, I am just going to tell my lawyer to file in court. I can use a court order to prove my income and get the kids insured, and get an order of separation with the default visitation days. I am so done with trying to be reasonable with him.
Thanks for listening to me rant. I feel much better now.
Rebecca

That's right... tell him, you have a choice in this until such-and-such date, then, I'm having my attorney assign the default terms.
Good luck!
Karen ~ wildlucky4me
Karen ~ wildlucky4me ~