Filing for Divorce- Haven't told him

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Registered: 01-13-2007
Filing for Divorce- Haven't told him
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Mon, 08-18-2008 - 9:26am

Hi- a little background my husband and I have been seperated for a little over a month now, and have basically had nothing to do with each other besides talking or seeing each other briefly concerning our DS, who is 2. At first I thought that we could have a reconciliation, but when I would try to have talks with my husband he was completely negative, and said he saw no future with me, and just didn't think there was anything to be done. Based on his attitude, I have talked to a lawyer, and the paperwork is going to be filed this week, and he will most likely be served on Friday.


I just feel like it's so weird that we've been together

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Registered: 03-30-2008
Mon, 08-18-2008 - 10:03am
I'm not telling my H he will be served, likely late this week also. Things have deteriorated greatly in our ability to deal with one another. And after the weekend I've had with him I do not feel I owe it to him. Plus, I too am concerned about his anger and his reaction. And if he found out ahead of time anyway, it's not going to change the reality. He's made his choices, he has to know it's coming. I'll let him be surprised.
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Registered: 10-25-2006
Mon, 08-18-2008 - 12:32pm

Bumblebee,


Hi. Welcome to the board. We hope you find support and advice you can use.


First things first, don't worry about being "friends" with your STBX

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