Finally cutting off all communication

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Registered: 08-31-2004
Finally cutting off all communication
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Thu, 09-01-2005 - 6:24pm

I just love this song...I have tried to be a good person and handle the split with H nicely and respectfully..but he is not having it...he is cold, cruel and frankly he is just a bridge burner....I found out today that 6 year old asked him about gf that spent the night at his house when they stayed and his reply was.....I do not even know how long she will be here...way to teach a child how disposable people are ...I am cutting off all contact him,unless there is a parenting major issue.....other than that, if he calls , when the phone is answered, I am just going to have our son answer.....I can not drag myself down with him and argue with him anymore...the pain has just been too much to bear....there is nothing left to talk about anymore ever again.....I dedicate this song to him......

You'll Think Of Me

I woke up early this morning around 4am
With the moon shining bright as headlights on the interstate
I pulled the covers over my head and tried to catch some sleep
But thoughts of us kept keeping me awake
Ever since you found yourself in someone else's arms
I've been tryin' my best to get along
But that's OK
There's nothing left to say, but

Take your records, take your freedom
Take your memories I don't need'em
Take your space and take your reasons
But you'll think of me
And take your cap and leave my sweater
'Cause we have nothing left to weather
In fact I'll feel a whole lot better
But you'll think of me, you'll think of me

I went out driving trying to clear my head
I tried to sweep out all the ruins that my emotions left
I guess I'm feeling just a little tired of this
And all the baggage that seems to still exist
It seems the only blessing I have left to my name
Is not knowing what we could have been
What we should have been

So
Take your records, take your freedom
Take your memories I don't need'em
Take your space and take your reasons
But you'll think of me
And take your cap and leave my sweater
'Cause we have nothing left to weather
In fact I'll feel a whole lot better
But you'll think of me

Someday I'm gonna run across your mind
Don't worry, I'll be fine
I'm gonna be alright
While you're sleeping with your pride
Wishing I could hold you tight
I'll be over you
And on with my life

So take your records, take your freedom
Take your memories I don't need'em
And take your cap and leave my sweater
'Cause we have nothing left to weather
In fact I'll feel a whole lot better
But you'll think of me
So take your records, take your freedom
Take your memories I don't need'em
Take your space and all your reasons
But you'll think of me
And take your cap and leave my sweater
'Cause we got nothing left to weather
In fact I'll feel a whole lot better
But you'll think of me, you'll think of me, yeah
And you're gonna think of me
Oh someday baby, someday

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Registered: 06-17-2004
Sun, 09-04-2005 - 1:59pm

What is with these guys? I think I have the answer! The problem is that they have a penis. A Penis is like Kryptonite to the male brain. The other problem is that they don't have enough blood in their bodies to operate the brain in their head and the brain in their pants at the same time, so guess which one they use most often???

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Registered: 09-04-2005
Sun, 09-04-2005 - 3:08pm
LOL! Or, as my mom always said about my dad, "That man thinks about sex so much that it's a wonder he doesn't have pubic hair on his head!"
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Registered: 03-11-2004
Sun, 09-04-2005 - 5:35pm
OMG!!!!!!!!!! ROFLMAO!!!!!!!!!!! Hugs, Brenda

Hugs, Brenda 

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Registered: 09-04-2005
Sun, 09-04-2005 - 6:44pm
Thank ya, thank ya, thank ya verrr much...
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Registered: 06-17-2004
Mon, 09-05-2005 - 9:18am
Oh, I had to change my locks because he'd come over here when I was gone and use my washer and dryer to do his laundry, throwing whatever I had in there on the floor in the living room. That, and he would look at porn on my computer!
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Registered: 05-07-2003
Mon, 09-05-2005 - 10:14am
Ewww, what a lunkhead! My STBX says he still owns 1/2 of our house, and uses the washer & dryer, yet balks at paying for repairs that HE has caused!
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Registered: 06-17-2004
Mon, 09-05-2005 - 2:00pm
The other day, mine had the nerve to TELL me to make him some dinner. When I said HELL NO! he said that he pays for all the food in the house b/c he pays childsupport (when he pays it), so he should get to eat some of it. He also said that he can walk in the house anytime he wants b/c he still pays the rent b/c of the childsupport he pays!!!! (this is why he is no longer allowed in my house and I keep the doors locked at all times)
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Registered: 05-07-2003
Mon, 09-05-2005 - 3:34pm
My STBX does knock before he comes in, and I don't really mind him doing laundry, IF he asks. But he has this air of entitlement around here... since I started emailing him, he's been much more distant. I'm not sure if I mentioned it on the board, but ;ast week, I got 2 new electronic thermostats for my house. I was going to install them either with DS, or with my brother. Anyway, STBX came over early on the 1st day of school, and installed one. I thanked him, and figured that would be the end of it. He came over to the couch where I was sitting, and tried to reach underneath my pajama shorts, thinking that he could get some action. I told him no way. His reply was, "I installed that for you." I told him I didn't appreciate him sexually harassing me, CONSIDERING I DID NOT ask him to install the thermostat." He left in a huff, and I called my lawyer. She told me that if he acts inappropriately again, I can get a restraining order. I actually emailed him, (so I'd haev a record of what was said), and I know he's read the email, because he's been standoffish for 3-4 days since he read it. Plus, I have AOL, as does STBX, so I ca tell if he's read it or not, and he has.
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Registered: 07-14-2003
Mon, 09-05-2005 - 3:54pm

Okay, so his intermittent CS pays for ALL of the food PLUS the rent? Poor baby. I feel sorry for him, shelling out like that! By all means, you should shoot down one of those pigs flying by and roast it for him!

Oops, those are his friends, aren't they?

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Registered: 06-17-2004
Mon, 09-05-2005 - 5:13pm
Not all of them are, only the ones who have straws up their noses or needles in their little piggy legs ;o)
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