First boring weekend alone
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First boring weekend alone
| Sat, 09-06-2008 - 6:06pm |
STBX moved out of the house mid July but this is really the first weekend I have been alone.
| Sat, 09-06-2008 - 6:06pm |
STBX moved out of the house mid July but this is really the first weekend I have been alone.
Hang in there!
I was thinking that I should have gone by the video store earlier.
That is probably a good idea.
Hey, do you live in Western MA?
First of all...go UMASS....lol! I went there for a year and LOVED it (didn't go back because of finances, finished up later in CT). I lived in the Central housing area my first semester, the Orchard Hill. I LOVED it there. I hope your DD is enjoying it. It's a great school; there's so much to do and be involved in. Also, I loved the town of Northampton. You reminded me of how much I miss it!
Also, I've never done an aerobics class at the gym - I'm too uncoordinated and clumsy! I enjoy doing the machines. The elliptical and bikes are great if you have knee problems.
On a side note, even if you're bored, you really, really need to stay away from the STBX when it comes to socializing. I'm not trying to be harsh, but it sounds like you're shocked every time he's a downer, mean, pessimistic, yet he behaves this way every single time he's around you. I realize you're trying to be nice, but you're only encouraging him, which isn't helping. In a way, you may be harming him because he's not being forced for forge ahead and make a life of his own. Plus, his misery is simply bad for your mental health!
I know you are right about your last paragraph.