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| Thu, 08-11-2005 - 11:20am |
I just wanted to say -
I think you are lucky to have a ex husband who is more than willing to do his part of the parenting of your child. I think thats great!
My point of view is a mom who has a ex who takes NO part in fathering his kids in anyway except to show up everyother weekend (even that is sporatic) for visitation or playtime. He lives 200 miles away which he chose to do. I would have gladly said NO child support if he would have been here to do his part as a father like you are. My ex didnt want to do that. He wanted to live with his girlfriend more than be near his kids.
My boyfriend that I have now has the same situation as you! He has 50/50 custody with his ex althought they do their best to try to split expenses - medical, school costs etc... but it isnt even for the most part but they do very well with the 50/50 parenting TIME.
For those like you - I think its HONORABLE and a wonderful healthy thing to do for the kids! I didnt want you to get me wrong...
Kudos for being a great mom!
| Thu, 08-11-2005 - 11:25am |

