F/U XH leaving 6yr DD alone

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Registered: 03-03-2006
F/U XH leaving 6yr DD alone
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Fri, 12-08-2006 - 9:05pm

I posted 2 weeks back about my DD telling me that her dad left her alone while he took GF to work (where they live from where she works is about 30 min round trip if not busy traffic).

DD told me out of the blue HOWEVER I believed my DD right away. My XH and his GF are liars and nicely put JERKS! I said to my DD "how do you know daddy didn't go just move the car?" Because I woke up and he was gone (she has to be to work at 5:30 a.m.) and then I fell back asleep and my daddy was there and I asked him where he was and he said I took GF to work." Then she said she fell back to sleep. I said (DD has 2 1/2 sibs one is 2yr and the other one is almost 3 months) "daddy left you with your sibs?" She said "no daddy dropped them off at my aunts last night it was just me." I kept asking her "Are you sure someone else wasn't there?" She continued to say no no no no. Oh and other posters to my original post said tell my DD to use the phone and call 911 if he does that. Well how much he cares for my DD he only has a cell phone and guess where the cell phone was ---- WITH HIM!!!!

She told me this in Wal-Mart about an hr after I had just picked her up from her weekend with her dad. Believe me I have learned that if I confront X in my hostile fashion it gets me no where. He is sooo stupid anyway. So I let it go but defintely was going to say something to him before she went with him for her weekend visit tonight. So I called him yesterday in a calm cool collective tone and said I would like to ask you soemthing about what DD told me I proceeded to ask him and before I could spit the whole thing out he immediately SAID NO! I said what? No I didn't leave her alone. How did you know I was going to ask -- I don't know I just did. I said well I believed her when she first told me and now I believe her 130% now that I have talked to you. While he talked to me the story changed 3x. I informed him that I have made documentation of what DD said and forwarded it the FOC. I also informed him that next time DD knows to tell her teacher and by law her teacher will have to report it - rather than a disgruntled XW. Then my DD called him later and as soon as she said hi daddy he wanted to know why she told me. I wasn't listening on the phone but I was outside her bedroom that I could hear her defending her story. I was going to butt in if he ripped her apart but he didn't. After she got off the phone with him she said mom "My dad said that the GF took the car to work (oh yeah they only have one car too)." I just reenforced to my DD to realize I believe her but she should NEVER lie to me. I want her to know that she can talk to me.

I told my X that he was pathetic and he digusted me to treat our DD this way and then to tell me that DD wasn't telling the truth. I said now I remember what happens when I talk to you - you make me vomit in my mouth!!! Slam!

Only 12 more years of legally having to talk to him!!!!!

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Registered: 03-15-2004
Sat, 12-09-2006 - 6:03am
Oh man! UN-BE-LIEVEALE!!!!!!!!!!

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