A fun filled Saturday Night

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Registered: 01-29-2005
A fun filled Saturday Night
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Sat, 12-10-2005 - 10:38pm

My husband and I have been having serious problems for years, and this week things have gotten especially bad and I have had to tell him to leave.

It's moving very fast now. He's already found a place and tomorrow night when my kids (5 and 10) come home from their grandmother's house, we are going to tell them. This is the hardest thing I have ever done.

I am ready for us to be apart. I have been prepared this last year, but he and I have been together beginning when we were 19, so I've spent my entire adult life with him. It's scary to think of doing this alone.

I'm a mess of confusion, hurt, and regret right now, and just needed to get some of this out without further burdening the people in my life who are there to support me. There's only so many times in a week they can hear the same emotional breakdown.




Edited 5/19/2006 6:06 pm ET by gwen227
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Registered: 03-19-2003
Sun, 12-11-2005 - 12:56am

I was in a similar situation.... married for 13 years to my high school sweetheart.


Karen ~ wildlucky4me ~