Getting Stronger Everyday

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Registered: 06-11-2004
Getting Stronger Everyday
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Mon, 05-09-2005 - 5:02pm

Hello Ladies,
It sure feels good to be able to post messages of hope and strenght. I know for all of us who have struggled, wondering when it will ever end (the pain, dissappointment, etc). Im glad to say that the "No Contact" theory is saving my life. For all of you who couldnt imagine getting to that place, take if from someone who used to believe the same thing once I really committed to doing it, wow does it make a difference!

I've made it for 8 days without calling him. My biggest achievement of all was not taking his calls on Mother's Day. He wanted to "come over". Called my cell at 1:45a.m. Saturday to wish me a Happy Mother's Day, saying he doesnt know what he's doing for the day, he's trying hard not to piss anyone off or make them feel inferior. The nerve. There is no way I was going to "share" my mother's day with the sleazy woman he cheated on me with then got pregnant when i kicked him out. He must have called my house 5 or six times throught the course of the day. Even called my sister's house looking for me. It's amazing how when you start to ignore them, they want to call & call & call.

Well I intend to stay strong, it feels good to have some control, its been so long since I felt out of control.

Score 1 for the women.

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iVillage Member
Registered: 06-11-2004
Thu, 05-12-2005 - 1:06pm
I appreciate your support. Thanks so much
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Registered: 03-19-2003
Thu, 05-12-2005 - 2:31pm

2 more days.... and counting!


Karen ~ wildlucky4me ~

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Registered: 06-11-2004
Thu, 05-12-2005 - 3:45pm
You guys are amazing. You have always been there for me. He did call my cell when I was at lunch and I didnt answer. So that feels good.

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