Going it alone?

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Registered: 06-24-2008
Going it alone?
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Thu, 08-07-2008 - 8:17pm

My divorce was final

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Registered: 10-25-2006
In reply to: zenax1
Thu, 08-07-2008 - 8:43pm

Zenax,


Stop looking for romance and start looking for friendship! :)


Seriously, being lonely

CL-Wisdomtooth2020

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Registered: 08-17-2001
In reply to: zenax1
Thu, 08-07-2008 - 10:36pm

Wow! My divorce was final December 31, 2002!

I'm with wisdom 100%. After my divorce, I wondered if I'd ever find someone to share my life with. I had great friends and great girls, but I felt alone, but it wasn't until I actually stopped feeling sorry for myself that I realized that my heart's desire was with me ..... like wisdom, I found it in my best friend. We're not married (yet) and not dating publicly, but it's the healthiest relationship I've ever had!!!

Patience. When you stop looking, you'll find it.

~calla~

~calla~  mom to rosie and gracie

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Registered: 11-28-1999
In reply to: zenax1
Fri, 08-08-2008 - 10:53am

I am going through my 2nd div now.

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Registered: 06-24-2008
In reply to: zenax1
Sat, 08-09-2008 - 7:30am
Thank you.
iVillage Member
Registered: 06-24-2008
In reply to: zenax1
Sat, 08-09-2008 - 7:33am
Yes, you're right too.
iVillage Member
Registered: 06-24-2008
In reply to: zenax1
Sat, 08-09-2008 - 7:46am
Thanks for sharing your story.
iVillage Member
Registered: 06-28-2008
In reply to: zenax1
Sun, 08-10-2008 - 9:03am

It is my experience than men come along when you are not looking for one.


If you are bound and determined to catch a new man, there are lots of dating books that give good advice.


The best advice I can give you is join some kind of group where you participate in an activity that interests you.

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Registered: 06-06-2003
In reply to: zenax1
Sun, 08-10-2008 - 10:08am

Hi Zenax,


Don't worry about meeting someone yet.