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Graduation Party at my house
| Wed, 05-03-2006 - 11:31pm |
hi all,
I've been divorced for just over a year. My son is graduating in June and I'm having his party here. Yes - I'm inviting both sides of the family against all my friend's advise. I even told his father that he is welcome and asked if there were any other people he thought i should invite.
My problem is that my son and his dad are feuding over a lot of things now and son announced tonite that he dosen't even want him at the commencements! I know that this was said in the heat of anger, but my x never forgives. So we are all on pins and needles wondering how this whole thing is going to play out.
I guess I'm just looking for support and any stories that you guys might want to share about handling this kind of situation.
Thanks for any advise you can give,
e
I've been divorced for just over a year. My son is graduating in June and I'm having his party here. Yes - I'm inviting both sides of the family against all my friend's advise. I even told his father that he is welcome and asked if there were any other people he thought i should invite.
My problem is that my son and his dad are feuding over a lot of things now and son announced tonite that he dosen't even want him at the commencements! I know that this was said in the heat of anger, but my x never forgives. So we are all on pins and needles wondering how this whole thing is going to play out.
I guess I'm just looking for support and any stories that you guys might want to share about handling this kind of situation.
Thanks for any advise you can give,
e

Yikes!.... I hate situations like that.
Hopefully, they'll both simmer down and build a new bridge before then.... and really, it's up to your EX and your son to work out their issue... although it can make everyone uncomfortable if they don't.... however, maybe your EX will have sense enough to make things right.... or keep his distance.
Karen ~ wildlucky4me ~
Well - i think you put the welcome mat out. Your son is old enough to deal with HIS cause & effect on teh situation & whatever happens, happens. really, its b/w your son & your X.
But i DO hope it blows over b4 hand.