Great weekend w/o DH

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Registered: 11-28-1999
Great weekend w/o DH
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Mon, 06-02-2008 - 2:59pm

I went to my cousin's wedding out of state from Thurs to Sat and it was really great being apart from DH.

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Registered: 04-27-2008
Mon, 06-02-2008 - 7:11pm

Hey musiclover
Glad you had some time away from dh!! (Although he still HAD to call you, and fill you in) Must be very frustrating. My STBX won't leave me alone either--drives me crazy, but he's doing the opposite of yours with the kids--mine is being sweet to the kids. They think he is doing really well. (Well despite the upcoming sentencing he is facing) I don't have the heart to tell them about what happened when he showed up here yesterday at the house unannounced. Wasn't nice at all...

You know, they are going to be the big losers in the long run alienating people. I believe we have to pick our battles with our lives and with our children, no matter what the age, and a paper plate in the garbage can just doesn't seem too important!

Regarding the cat, I am a HUGE animal lover, and would never put an animal down without lots of my favourite people around. I have put down two dogs, a cat and three horses. Was very tough, but wanted my family/friends around me for support. Perhaps it's his way of suffering, almost like a self sacrifice? Who knows how their minds work--I don't think it's our job to figure it out though.

Take care, and hope you have a good week.

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Registered: 11-28-1999
Tue, 06-03-2008 - 10:16am

We used to have a dog also, which we rescued from an animal shelter.

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Registered: 03-30-2008
Tue, 06-03-2008 - 8:47pm

Oh man Music, he's a charmer, huh? ;) I want to smack him for you (if that helps any) :)


Hang in there.


What the status of his credit issues and moving out? Any progress there? I hope things are moving along in that regard....esp for your sanity!

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Registered: 11-28-1999
Wed, 06-04-2008 - 10:42am
We have to reapply for a loan soon.
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Registered: 06-03-2008
Wed, 06-04-2008 - 11:17am

What we don't like about ourselves, is what we don't like in others.