Hi. Welcome to the board. We're glad you're here and hope you find support and advice you can use.
Sounds like your STBX didn't think of the consequences of his choice to have an extra-maritial affair. It's been my observation that men caught cheating regret only one thing: getting caught. Secondarily they regret
Yep, my H changes his tune on finances based on how much he feels like punishing me at that moment in time, whenever "that moment" might be. I think it's his way of trying to still have control over me. Well as of today I've turned it over to the courts. It feels like a weight has been lifted. Things will be tight $$-wise, but at least I'll know what it's supposed to be, in writing. I do better that way.
He must be related to my stbx because "you're not going to take me to for everything I'm worth" were almost the 1st words out of his mouth.
Hi Soon --
LOL!
Malia
Malia,
Hi. Welcome to the board. We're glad you're here and hope you find support and advice you can use.
Sounds like your STBX didn't think of the consequences of his choice to have an extra-maritial affair. It's been my observation that men caught cheating regret only one thing: getting caught. Secondarily they regret
CL-Wisdomtooth2020
Yep, my H changes his tune on finances based on how much he feels like punishing me at that moment in time, whenever "that moment" might be. I think it's his way of trying to still have control over me. Well as of today I've turned it over to the courts. It feels like a weight has been lifted. Things will be tight $$-wise, but at least I'll know what it's supposed to be, in writing. I do better that way.
GL with your H and the $$ situation.