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H went out tonight
| Mon, 01-29-2007 - 11:11pm |
I only told him yesterday I want a divorce. I guess he thinks he is free now. Tonight he said he was running an error. That was three hours ago. I really hope this does not continue. If he does I will be forced to ask him to leave. I really feel it is wrong for him to go out before our divorce if final. I know he has done this before many times. Tonight it is just hard. Why does he have to do this and why can he not be honest. I don't want to get into it with him because right now he is giving me anything I want in the divorce. If I push him I am sure he will change his mind and fight me. I am just really upset he is doing this.


Of course he should not do this. That why it makes me puke that my stbx and his married lover are planning their future. good grief.
I found this thought on the internet somewhere and it is good. print this out and give it to him. but maybe he doesnt care about honor. perhaps he is trying to hurt you as bad as he can now ? well here it is. I dont know where I found it could be on this board or somewhere else:
You can choose not to love your spouse. You can choose to end the relationship. You can choose to speak your mind and say you are unhappy. You can also choose not be a liar or someone who betrays. There is no one in the world who can convince me that cheating on your spouse and bringing those lies into the home is honorable. You can divorce with honor but once you cheat , you are a cheater!