Happiness or hapiness? Something more

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Registered: 06-14-2005
Happiness or hapiness? Something more
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Tue, 06-14-2005 - 2:04pm

Dont know what to do want to move out on my own, but scared for the kids. Do they deserve to live without dad. I feel dad will move out of state. What do I do, just because Im unhappy they dont have to be, do they?

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Registered: 03-06-2005
Tue, 06-14-2005 - 2:07pm

Hugs to you....


I am sorry you are going through this.


I guess it really is about WHY you are unhappy. If the reasons consist of things that you can fix, then no it isn't worth it. But if there is violence, alcoholism, drugs or any other serious reason, yes, get out as soon as you can.


Without knowing details that is the best advice I can give.


Hugs to you,


Angelena

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Registered: 03-19-2003
Tue, 06-14-2005 - 4:00pm

Hi there.... Welcome to the board.


I'm curious, too.... about why you're unhappy.... but my theory is.... if Momma isn't happy, then the kids aren't getting the full "you" that they deserve.... and your husband isn't getting it either, therefore he can't be 100% of his potential in the relationship.


Karen ~ wildlucky4me ~