Happy and IRRITATED!
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| Wed, 08-23-2006 - 1:47pm |
Well, the happy part, I just left the attorneys office. With everything split down the middle, assets/debt, etc., I'm going to be in pretty good shape. Should end up with 60K from his 401K to roll into an IRA, and a pension check from his company when I turn 62 until I die! So, that was good news.
Now, the irritating news. We have an old car (1995 Intrepid) that STBX and I agreed to leave with me for my DS to drive (he just got his license last Friday). Anyway, the car is in pretty good shape, just needs a couple things.
So instead of my loser STBX offering to fix it or even helping my son do it, my father came up today to work on it! He has bad knees and he's older, I mean really! I went home for lunch to check on my dad and I got so mad seeing him working on that car I could have spit nails! Something like this just reaffirms that divorcing him was the best thing I could ever do! And how very selfish and self centered he is.
And everytime I call him (kid related), he's on his phone! Man does this irritate me! How can somebody be so one-way? I just don't get it.
Thanks for letting me vent, I'll keep you posted.
Hugs,
Jennifer

Oh boy, do I know EXACTLY what you are saying. Been there.
But I am glad that your divorce will not bring financial ruin upon you. Take care.
My dad has spent way more time "mentoring" my son than my EX ever will.
Good news on the happy part of your post!
Karen ~ wildlucky4me ~