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Has anyone ever in the past~
| Sat, 09-24-2005 - 11:10am |
contacted the ex wife (or in my case wives)or girlfriend, or even the woman that he cheated on with you?
| Sat, 09-24-2005 - 11:10am |
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Yes. OW contacted me when she "accidentally" emailed naked pictures of herself and my husband to my husbands home address, which was linked to my email account in outlook in my house, it was about 2-3 weeks after he left us.
And, XH's ex-wife is a member of the boards here... we met BY COINCIDENCE on this board. ( odd I know )
IT NEVER EVER DOES ANY GOOD FOR YOU TO TALK TO ANY X's......
You could be the most peeved off person and HATE your ex husband but when you talk to the ex wife or the current gf or the OW of whom he cheated on you with, you will become mush at the thought of him being with another woman, in the past or not.
My advice, stay away from that stuff. Only once I STOPPED talking to OW COMPLETELY was I able to 300% move on.
Hope this helps.
I have talked with is second Ex wife when we were married,and I have met her before. She basically told me Good Luck. She told me she was miserable being with him. He would take the thermostat off the wall so she couldn't change it and she had to call the police because he ended up putting alot of her things in storage so the police made him get them out...it was bad
I also have had many of conversations with his 3rd ex wife...were friends and she is a wonderful person. Of course my Ex would be so disrespectful of his Ex's he would call them the IT AND THE THING.
He would hide things on her also. He Hid there marriage photos. He hid our photos also, WEIRD (I have the negatives)Got his own PO Box. She told me that she was SO DEPRESSED for close to 5 yrs.
i'm thinking that it shouldn't take me too long to move on because our relationship was so TOXIC. I just feel like such a fool. He is a VERY SICK person..Because someone that claims that they love you so much and can't imagine life without you can TREAT you this way...Victoria
I think I've talked to a couple of them by accident when they called him. One was on a Friday night last fall and she said, "Is Joe there?" and didn't leave a message. Then a few weeks ago (right after I moved into my apartment) a woman called for him and I said, "He doesn't live here -- we've broken up," and she said, "Thank you so much!" So I'm assuming it was another of his OW.
I would never call them -- why would I? He's a liar (bad liar) and cheater -- they can have him.
Well the reason I contact a couple of the Ex's was to find out what kind of a lying Sociopath I was married too. And they were both VERY NICE and told me pretty much GOOD FRICKIN LUCK!!
Because I knew he was crazy, and I knew they ALL LEFT HIM..when he was away on vaction or gone somewhere...SEE THEY WERE FLEEING...What does that tell ya!!!
Karen ~ wildlucky4me
Karen ~ wildlucky4me ~
I have not but, this raises a question I've been thinking about for a while now. My son is supposed to spend half the time at his Dad's but, I haven't let STBX take him there now that he moved in with his gf. My thoughts are I should meet her if my son is going to spend so much time with her but, I'm not ready. What do you guys think? Should I just let my son go there so I don't have to see Stupid all the time and if I do, am I entitled to meet her?
Jessica
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