Have to move back in with him
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|Thu, 02-02-2012 - 3:38pm|
I am feeling very down & defeated right now. 2 years ago, this month I seperated from my husband of 8 years. However, at the time he was unemployed & we chose to co-habitate. We listed our home on the market, and I moved into my daughters room. It stayed like that until he became violent with me one night, and I saved my money & got into a rental home around the block. The very day I signed my lease he closed our bank accounts, changed the locks, took the home off the market, and filed for divorce. He also found a job, and hadn't told me.
A couple of months later I met a wonderful man, who I am still with now. He has helped me through everything. He came into my business with me, and has worked day & night to help me stay afloat since I have 4 kids to support. And he loves them. He has given me over $10,000 in help. Meanwhile, my ex barely works, and still lives in the mortgage free marital home. My boyfriend finally moved in with me in Aug, 1 yr after the divorce filing, and was helping me to pay rent because my debt has grown over the year. However, the owner of my rental didnt pay his mortgage & the house foreclosed in Oct.
In Dec 2011 we had a divorce hearing. The judge ordered the marital home back on the market. She also ordered he pay me $5000. However, I was asking to be allowed into the home, and he would