Having butterflies

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Registered: 12-19-2003
Having butterflies
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Thu, 07-05-2007 - 3:24pm
Has anyone else gotten anxious right before having your spouse served? Don't get me wrong, I am not second-guessing my decision, but for some reason I have butterflies in my stomach. My H and I hardly speak unless he is making plans to pick up DS & DD, and I haven't mentioned to him that I had already met with the lawyer. I had told him a few weeks ago that this was my next step. He had a surprised reaction, which struck me oddly because he has made it very clear that he is in a very good relationship with OW. In fact he told me he has never had it so good - which I know was just him being hurtful. I don't know why he needs to be hurtful since he was the one who chose OW instead of trying to work out our issues. But you know what - this whole thing was a blessing in disguise. His lifestyle is not one I choose for my children or myself to be a part of, and we are all better off. DDay will be a year ago (in a few weeks). I am completely confident in my decision, but I don't know why I am getting so anxious! Has anyone else gotten to jitters before the process has even begun?
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Registered: 03-19-2003
In reply to: td143
Tue, 07-17-2007 - 3:57pm

Sure.... that just comes with change.... even when you know it's the right decision.


Hope everything went well when he was served and that you are feeling better now.


Karen ~ wildlucky4me


Karen ~ wildlucky4me ~