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Having surgery on Monday
| Fri, 12-05-2008 - 11:08am |
ON MOnday I get to have a D&C (2nd one) and guess who is driving me to the hosp & picking me up? Yes, STBX. I didn't really want to ask him, but really there is noone else since DD isn't home. I have no relatives in the area and I really didn't want to ask my 77 yr old aunt to drive an hour to do this. Orig, he said that he would sit in the waiting room, but then my dr said that I have to go at 8:00 a.m. and won't be out until about 12:00 so he can just drop me off & then go home. He only lives a few mins. from the hospital anyway. So I realized that I can never really get sick cause there is no one to take care of me or even drive me to appts. I guess I better take care of myself.

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Prayers and Hugs to you!
Rachel
Thinking of you and hoping all goes well.
Karry - - who is learning to embrace life on her own raising her miracle, Carley Paige
Karen ~ wildlucky4me ~
Good luck with your surgery! I can understand why you're not happy having to rely on your STBX. I know it's easy to say that we need to develop support systems outside of our exs/STBXs, but sometimes, that takes time.
Be patient with yourself and I hope you have a speedy recovery.
I'm glad you're recovering well and feel OK. It's too bad your son is sick at the same time! Such is the life a a mom...we rarely have time to recover ;)
If I had to guess, your STBX stuck around the hospital because he still cares about you...a lot. He probably wanted to be there on the off chance that something went wrong.
But don't worry about him right now! Focus on your recovery. I hope you're 100% soon.
Edited 12/9/2008 3:56 pm ET by justiceandtruth
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