He caught me with the poolman

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Registered: 04-21-2007
He caught me with the poolman
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Sat, 04-21-2007 - 1:51pm

So I was pretty bummed, I've been unhappy in my marriage for 2 years now. I caught him cheating last year with some floozy at work so I decided to get back at him.

I'm really upset because he stopped sleeping in the same bedroom with me, and just sleeps in the basement and masterbates, while I stay upstair crying myself to sleep.

I feel so alone and sad, and I just want to know if anyone can identify with how I feel?

Sad in Iowa,
ragingbitch

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Registered: 03-19-2003
Sat, 04-21-2007 - 7:20pm

Hi~


You might find more folks who can identify here:


  • My Affair Support
  • Ending an Affair Support


  • Karen ~ wildlucky4me ~

    iVillage Member
    Registered: 12-25-2005
    Sun, 04-22-2007 - 12:09am

    Bummer,

    Hopefully he cleaned the pool first. If it's only been two years and no kids involved, get a divorce and hopefully both sides will think twice about getting married again.....

    iVillage Member
    Registered: 09-12-2003
    Sun, 04-22-2007 - 10:31am
    Cheating to get back at someone is never a good idea, it backfires too often in one way or another... Anyway - and whatever you want - I don't think the current situation is going to last long - masturbating on the couch sounds even a more lousy situation than crying in the bed (and hardly erotic, if I may add...). Either he moves out, or he moves back in the bedroom - your call (both of you) to figure out what you want.