He Chose a man over his wife and son
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| Mon, 06-09-2008 - 3:15pm |
My husband and I married in August of 2005. A year and some later we bought in a beautiful baby boy, December of 2006. During all of this time. My husband had a male friend staying with us. I told him he has to go because we are newlyweds and we're bringing a new life into our house (which we bought three months after we got married.... and yes his friend moved right in with us). My husband kept giving it another year and another year. Last year was the straw. I told him that I can't even walk around my house naked if I wanted to because you have this dude living in our house. It got so bad we took it to our church. This was the first time we had separated (for a week). My husband was highly upset because I had let the elder in out church that we had another person living in our house who was running our marriage. About a few days later, he wanted me and our son to back home. So he came and picked us up from my mothers house and said he was not going to let anyone come between his marriage. He did not want to lose his wife and son. It felt good to hear that, but I knew deep down it was never going to happen. I went back home to make my marriage work. I loved my husband, and I was willing to do anything for him and for US to make it work. He told me his friend will move out at the end of December (2007). At this time it was September, and he never mention a word to his friend. At this time, things was so bad I barely say my husband, and every time I turned around my husband and his friend was always together. It was November of 2007 and
