He has "concerns"
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| Mon, 02-20-2006 - 1:26pm |
Reposted, i posted it in the wrong spot. Sorry!
What an ass. My son and I live with my parents right now. in a huge old house, along with my youngest brother (20), a college student. They are selling the house, due to a myriad of issues. So both myself and my brother will be looking for other accommodations soon. one of the options floating around is for the three of us (me, clay, bro) to get a nice 3 bedroom apartment together. TO cut down on costs for both of us. I'm just not sure I can swing it without a roommate (esp. since he's not paying child support right now due to his disability and recent knee surgery). Well he has concerns and thinks it's a terrible idea and won't "allow" it until A) the house is for sale or B) has been sold. (I don't think he can stop me from moving -- he has joint legal, i have sole physical custody). . . and he has "concerns" about my brother because he's 20 and never had a girlfriend. Concerns meaning he thinks he's gay (not even). . . but even if he were, there isn't anything wrong with that, nor would there be anything wrong with HIS son being around his uncle. I'm just so frustrated and ready to cry .. he also said that once we move that our son will have to be in day-care full time (currently he's in Parents-day-out 3 days a week, 4 hours per day, and my mom watches him the other time (except most Friday's he is with ex all day). So that would be an additional cost .. he has "concerns" about my mother too, mostly in that he's convinced she's brainwashing him against him. Says he'll take me to mediation about that issue -- the child-care one. Insisting that he HAS To be in an (approved by him) full-time day care. Meanwhile he doesn't pay one cent for ANYTHING

OK. I truly think he's blowing smoke about having talked to his lawyer and him saying I couldn't live with my brother because it would be "cohabitating" with someone. . .
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The parties also agree not to cohabit with a person they are involved in a romantic like relationship when they have the minor child in their care and custody.
But now he's being all jerky and saying he's talking to his lawyer. Icurrently no longer have a lawyer. She was too much money, AND didn't agree with my giving him joint-legal custody.
I think he's blowin' smoke on what he "wishes" would be the law... not what the law actually is.
Karen ~ wildlucky4me ~
Tell him you'll notify him "immediaetly" when you have something firm and definite
Karen ~ wildlucky4me ~