He is INSANE ... I *need* sole legal

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He is INSANE ... I *need* sole legal
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Sun, 05-14-2006 - 12:15pm
custody. He is just out of his mind too often.

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Registered: 06-17-2004
Sun, 05-14-2006 - 1:20pm

The man is a lunatic!!!!!!!!!!!!!!


Seriously, who does this to a sweet, innocent child that he loves???? Obviously, no sane man would, no man that wanted to do everything to help his daughter through a very tough situation. He is selfish and has no regard for HER needs, only HIS. What does he care if you change your name??? And he knows damn well that his child's name would NOT be changed!!!!! He just wanted to push buttons and get a reaction. He is acting on emotions rather than logic, just as he has been from day one. I wonder what the laws are in your state regarding recording phone calls? I know in my state that you can record a phone call as long as one party knows that it's being recorded. So, I could record a phone call between STBX and me, but not between STBX and one of his buddies. I can't believe you are this far into things, so close to having it DONE, yet, he's still acting like this! Obviously, he still wants you back. Does he think that his behavior is going to get him anywhere????? Good grief, my son is FOUR-YEARS-OLD and recognizes that throwing a temper tantrum will get him NOWHERE and only gets him into more trouble! And how old is this *man*? (and I use the word man VERY generally here!). How many times now has he said that he wants nothing to do with either one of you? And to call a little girl such a horrible name!!!!! What did SHE do?! I've told my ex a thousand times to talk to me however he likes, I don't care, but the second he chooses to involve my sons I will take it to my attorney.


Rebecca, I am SO sorry you are going through all of this!!!! And poor little AVERY!!! She such a precious little girl, one whom should NEVER have to witness such abuse or endure it.


PLEASE feel free to email me anytime you need to talk *hugs* Give that sweet, adorable daughter of yours some hugs and kisses from me too!!!!!!!

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Sun, 05-14-2006 - 2:36pm
Rebecca, I am so sorry your STBX is being so naughty. (to put it nicely). I feel so bad for Avery and you. I will say a prayer for you both. Hugs, Brenda

Hugs, Brenda 

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Registered: 04-19-2004
Sun, 05-14-2006 - 4:49pm

Its really too bad you answered the phone, had you let it go to voicemail he may have said that and said it even more belligerently and awful to have more proof at how angry and crazy he is. I wouldn't want my child near him at all either. He's scary to me, I am really afraid for you and her. Seriously.

I hope you get sole legal custody this man shouldn't be near her without supervised visitation.

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Registered: 03-15-2004
Sun, 05-14-2006 - 5:09pm

I know. But you know what? I have saved MANY of his crazy messages in the past, & NO ONE gives a crap. No one listens to them.

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Sun, 05-14-2006 - 5:13pm

Hugs it must be the most frustrating thing to not be able to protect your child and to have some person appointed to help not lift a damn finger.

I just wanted to give you a hug...too bad you didn't live up here (MA) I think you'd find this state a lot better for your situation.

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Registered: 03-19-2003
Sun, 05-14-2006 - 5:46pm

I'm always amazed at him... wow!


Well, we can hope that the letter will make a difference, and that his attorney will explain to him that "custody" and "visitation" don't mean the same thing.


Karen ~ wildlucky4me ~

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Sun, 05-14-2006 - 11:06pm

Has he been diagnosed with mental illness?

Susan

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Mon, 05-15-2006 - 8:24am

Hi Susan, yes, he has documented Major Depression with a ? of BiPolar disorder (they have tried him on Lithium, & the ONLY reason you give Lithium is BiPolar, but he isnt med compliant) & alcoholism. Has been in & out of treatment for all of these issues.

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Mon, 05-15-2006 - 10:25am

OK, if he wants to call you a b*&ch, you're an adult, and you can handle it. But his DAUGHTER?? What on earth did SHE do to deserve that?


You have tried so hard to allow him adequate parenting time, the opportunity to have joint custody, etc. Right now, the man just can not do it. How long have you been separated now...over 14 months? And this level of behavior is STILL going on?


I'm really glad your SIL wrote that letter. Maybe it will make the GAL do SOMETHING. I feel for you and Avery.




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Registered: 04-02-2003
Mon, 05-15-2006 - 12:25pm
oh rebecca.... i don't know what to say to you. you are such a great mommy and it sounds like your dd is a great and strong young lady. i hope that SOMETHING works...

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