He makes everything a big deal

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Registered: 11-28-1999
He makes everything a big deal
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Thu, 05-08-2008 - 2:20pm

It seems that lately all DH & I talk about is money & bills.

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Registered: 03-30-2008
Thu, 05-08-2008 - 8:29pm

Vent away Music. It's the little things. It's the big things. They are ALL maddening.


My H isn't

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Registered: 03-26-2003
Fri, 05-09-2008 - 8:04am

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Registered: 11-28-1999
Fri, 05-09-2008 - 10:22am

No it's not wrong to want to get things settled.

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Registered: 03-24-2008
Sat, 05-10-2008 - 5:30pm

The sooner you cut the apron strings the easier it is to move on.

It's okay to jump...you have wings! 

To move forward...you have to stop looking back.

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Registered: 04-27-2008
Sat, 05-10-2008 - 7:20pm
No prob with your vent for the day musiclover! No wonder you are frustrated. It's a leap trusting someone who clearly hasn't shown he deserves the trust. And I can totally relate to the memory loss and ADD LOL!! Nothing they do seems to make any sense to anyone except THEM!! My STBX dropped off a card and flowers today for Mother's Day!! Haven't gotten a card except maybe 4x in 25 years!!! And flowers?? can't remember haha. We do all have our crosses to bear for sure, but if we can maintain some sense of humour through the ridiculousness of it all, it helps. My sanity is my constant contact with my kids (23 & 19 and out of town) and with my horses and dogs :)