He moved out last night

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Registered: 12-15-2004
He moved out last night
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Thu, 09-22-2005 - 8:19am

I am sad/happy/angry/free all at the same time. Right now we are trying seperation before divorce. He seems to think he can change and wants to prove it to me.

Right now He is living with his sister for now since he can't afford to help with the house and get an apartment of his own at this time.

What do you think of me getting a roommate so he can have more of his paycheck to get a place of his own? I know he won't like living at his sisters for long, plus she will make him lawyer up2 + make this a messy situation. She is a nosey, 2-faced, physco, buzy body, that I can't stand.

Luckily I had my doggies and kitties to be with me last night :-( they stayed next to me all night. Not that I slept much.

Amber

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Thu, 09-22-2005 - 2:42pm
Well I slept like a baby last night without him and I can't seem to sit still before I go to work. My house this am is really-really clean! My Aunt/Uncle called him this morning to let him know whatever happens they would still be his Aunt/Uncle. They said he choked on that. Also, he had no bad things to say about me and he still loves/misses me. UGH! It is like he is trying to woo their affection to win me back sooner. It makes me so frustrated when they do that. They didn't live with him, they don't know what was going on. Just the other day as he was leaving he told me he was only verbal with me the year I was sick and out of work that he didn't hit me. I told him that was bad enough and he can't take it back.
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Registered: 03-06-2005
Thu, 09-22-2005 - 6:51pm

Hugs to you, I don't know your whole story but nonetheless, you need a hug :)


Take care.....


Angelena

















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Registered: 12-15-2004
Thu, 09-22-2005 - 8:41pm
Thank you for the hug
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Fri, 09-23-2005 - 12:49pm
He called this morning at 4:30 am to talk. He rang the phone 3x's before I picked up worried something was wrong. He accused me of seeing someone else-which I am not!-, then he just went on about the things I want to divorce hime over like complaining about my work hours, etc (please see my post seeing a lawyer for the first time is where my whole story is at my arms are killing me this am to type). It has only been two days and he is doing this now!! I am going to turn off the phone at night to get a good night sleep. I can't handle this and work extra to pay bills. Now I am not sure if I want to try counseling or not.