He needs space???
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| Mon, 07-16-2007 - 12:53pm |
I get so annoyed when I read stories on here about the spouse "needing space". My stbx told me that he needed space, too. That he needed to figure out if he wanted to "settle" for me for the rest of his life or get a divorce and be happy! Um, whatever!! He pulled that crap on me 3 times when we were married and I waited for him every dang time. (The second time we separated for a year, filed for divorce and right before it was final he came back to me...and I took him with open arms, ugh.) Why oh why is it such a hard decision? Either they love you or they don't, right? Well, this last time, I told him that was it. He could take as much time as he needed somewhere else! Space, my ass!
Sorry, guys, I really needed to get that out. I'm too good for him anyway.

Good for you!
"needing space" means "I want to play for a while"
and "settle" means "if I can't find something that I think is better, I'll be back.... love of my life, ole dear, oh honey"
No fixable issue, in my opinion, is improved by space.
Karen ~ wildlucky4me
Karen ~ wildlucky4me ~