He is out of control - CRAZY!!!!!
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He is out of control - CRAZY!!!!!
| Mon, 02-27-2006 - 8:41am |
I am actually afraid for my life now with my ex. Yet again he caused another fiasco on Saturday for the pick up, I left messages for my lawyer and my son's that day and Ive already called both lawyers this morning and left messages with them. He accused me of hitting him I didnt. He swung to hit me because he wanted me to get away from his car, he didnt want me to see whether or not he had a car seat. Thank God my sister, niece and her boyfriend was there. So I have witnesses that I didnt hit him.
I am just at my wits end Im so upset and Im actually afraid for my life. He took off speeding down the block, went straight through the stop sign at the end of my block. He is a stark raving maniac. My God why is he doing this.

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I understand what your saying however, the only reason my sister's boyfriend has been able to be there is because he's been off from work for a few weeks. So that would just be a temporary fix but he cant be there all the time he has his own family that he helps out on the weekends too. My ex has to grow up. Him and I made this child not other people ya know. Its childish. My ex can talk to me in a calm manner when he is trying to get something HE wants from me so it's all bull. He's playing games.
Prime example, when I had to cancel the visit on b/c the baby was sick, I called him gave him the info and hung up. Like a child he calls my sister's bf 7:30am asking him what's going on. Going back and forth asking him to call me blah, blah. Then he tells him okay he'll take a make up visit. Then 5 minutes later says no Im lying about the baby being sick he wants to see him for himself. My sister's bf is telling him it's true the baby is sick. You just said you would accept the make up visit why are you switching it now. My ex tells him Im just trying to get back at him. HELLOOOOOOOOOOO, get back at him for WHAT? I just realized how guilty that makes him look. Telling him if I dont let him in to see the baby he's calling the police on me.
Dont you know he shows up anyway at my house RINGING MY BELL, CALLING ME ON THE PHONE. Saying he wants to talk to me about the baby and he wants to see him. Did I just miss something or what. After the stunt he pulled the day before I was supposed to let him in to my apt. NO WAY. So he called the police on me. They came I told them what happened and they left. He acts like I have no rights and he has them all.
Im not going to put up with him making a scene in front of my building all the time. He needs to get it together.
I hear you about the clothes. In his eyes I already dress the baby in as he put it "crappy-a$$ clothes", and I believe he's been dressing him in clothes that are too small to spite me but its hurting the baby. If I go to goodwill or like a salvation army and get cheap clothes that wont hurt to loose god only knows what he will do. In his eyes he thinks I dress the baby like this to spite him. It's crazy. I cant afford name-brand clothes for a three year old and he seems to think that's how he should be dressed.
The courts have to get him under control. They cant allow him to carry on like this. This is crazy. If I were doing it he would yelling to the high heavens that Im unfit. They cant expect to think it's okay for him to throw out clothes I bought the baby because HE doesnt like the way they look. Please dont tell me that they are just gonna say too bad to me. His behavior cant continue like this.
You know I have to say that some people seem to be acting as though Im the bad one here with some of their comments. Yes I too agree you do have to pick your battles. Im just dealing with what was thrown at me.
I didnt go chasing him down the street to look for a car seat. He told me he didnt have one I told him, you need one he said no he doesnt. I asked him at the door of my building, he refused to answer so I wanted to make sure because he stated he didnt have to be in one. Then if I didnt check and god forbid there was an accident then I would be criticizied for not checking.
I want to and have tried to be civil. This was only the second visit. I will take what Ive learned and put it into effect see if it changes things. I WILL NOT however feel ashamed for wanting to protect my child and myself.
Thanks to all of those that have been supportive.
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