He says he's moving to the other bedroom

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Registered: 11-28-1999
He says he's moving to the other bedroom
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Tue, 05-13-2008 - 1:28pm

Last night DH said he would move into the vacant bedroom that used to be his dd's.

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Registered: 04-27-2008
Tue, 05-13-2008 - 1:56pm
My STBX lived in a room in the basement for months. I know how difficult it is with them in the same house.
iVillage Member
Registered: 11-28-1999
Tue, 05-13-2008 - 4:39pm
Oh if only I could confine him to the basement.
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Registered: 04-27-2008
Tue, 05-13-2008 - 6:46pm
You have an obligation to your DD who is coming home soon. Focus on that. He can work out his own arrangements (and NEEDS to!!!) You don't need to deal with the drama of having him in the house.
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Registered: 03-30-2008
Tue, 05-13-2008 - 10:20pm
My H was in the finished lower level forever too....until I couldn't take him not helping with the house work, errands, etc. I was like his mother....he was lazy. He's still at a hotel. I'm seeing the attorney on Thursday. Can't wait! Hang in there Music and others!!
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Registered: 03-24-2008
Tue, 05-13-2008 - 10:32pm

Moving into the spare bedroom doesn't solve anything.

It's okay to jump...you have wings! 

To move forward...you have to stop looking back.

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Registered: 11-28-1999
Wed, 05-14-2008 - 10:44am

I agree with you 100%.